Sad Weekend For Me

Sorry for not posting for the past couple of days. I just didn’t have anything to write about. Worst still, I’ve gone through what probably was the saddest weekend of my life as a family man.

On Saturday, I brought my wife to the gynecologist. We’re expecting our second child. However, upon examination, the doctor said that there’s been no growth at all since the last check up. There’s also no foetal echo (ie. no heartbeat detected).

And today, my wife started bleeding. I took her to the clinic first thing in the morning. A “cleaning” procedure has been scheduled for her at 3:00pm today (Malaysian time).

Yes, I do feel saddened by this whole ordeal; but hey, this is life. We score some points and we take some hits as well. Some more significant than others. The most important thing is to move on positively.

20 responses to “Sad Weekend For Me”.

  1. papajoneh Says:

    Just found out about this at 2:55pm. So sorry to hear this. So so sorry my friend. I hope, everything is ok there. Hope wife is ok and well after the ‘procedure’. Indeed a sad story here 🙁
    Meen my friend, be strong ok.

  2. ben Says:

    Comiserations. I know how you feel, I went through something similar not once but twice a few years back; twice in one year (a few months apart) to be exact.

  3. jppmom Says:

    sorry to know about this..God bless you & your wife.

  4. ethel Says:

    Sorry to hear this, Azmeen. 🙁 I always believe that things happen for a reason..

    Hope your wife will go through the “cleaning” process without any problem. God bless you both.

  5. chinnee Says:

    hi Azmeen, came over from Papajoneh’s blog. I can understand how you and your wife feel as I been thru a miscarriage too after waiting for the arrival of the baby for so long before this pregnancy (i m in my late preg now).

    This is how I think to make myself to feel better. If the baby is not meant to be in our family, then might as well let him go peacefully rather than have him suffer in womb during the pregnancy. Give yourself n your wife sometime to heal and
    may both of you be blessed with a healthy baby soon 🙂

    Chin nee

  6. Dabido Says:

    Sorry to hear about your loss. I’ve also been there, back when I was married my wife miscarriaged as well. It’s very sad.

  7. Kay Kastum Says:

    Bro. My prayers are for your family. God sure work in mysterious ways. All of us are put to test every now and then.

  8. Site Admin Azmeen Says:

    Came back from the hospital about one and a half hours ago. Thanks for your condolences papajoneh, ben, jppmom, ethel, chinnee, Dabido and Kay.

    It really made me feel much better after a whole day at the hospital.

    The Mrs is still sleeping off the after-effects of anaesthesia, but she should be fine soon.

    Again, thank you for your kindness. I appreciate it tremendously 🙂

  9. nimrodjo Says:

    Hang in there man…It happens for a reason…

  10. Anas Alam Faizli Says:

    Sorry to hear about this bro. I wish I’m around so that I can drop down to visit if that could make you feel better. Stay strong brother.

  11. Site Admin Azmeen Says:

    Thanks nimrodjo, I’m still hanging in 🙂

    Anas; thanks for the kind thoughts. Do drop by the next time you’re in JB, bro!

  12. Criz Lai Says:

    My prayers to you Azmeen. I understand the pain and trauma you are in now. Stay strong and I will pray hard for your wife to recover soon. It is not something that anyone would wish for in a family but it does happen. Hang on friend…

  13. Site Admin Azmeen Says:

    Criz, Thanks for your prayers.

  14. Aunty J Says:

    Hi Azmeen, dropping by from PapaJoneh’s. I’m truly sorry to hear of the sad news…hang in there and give all the emotional support to each other during this fragile moments…take care and may God bless you and your family..

  15. azrin Says:

    Sorry to hear that …

    Take care of yourself.

    Azrin @ http://www.azrin.net

  16. chegu carol Says:

    Hi Azmeen,
    Dropping by from Papajoneh’s blog.
    Sorry to hear about your lost.
    Like Aunty J said, give all the emotional support to each other during this hard time.
    Time will heal.
    God bless your family.

  17. Juanma (Spain) Says:

    Wow man… I just can’t say anything, you left me frozen… I hope your wife is right by now… It must be difficult, and I can’t realize the measure of your sadness… so I hope this hit isn’t anything compared with the good times and scores you goaled and that you will goal in your life path. In Spain we say something like ‘Stormy night, shining day’s eve’.
    I’ll pray for you, your wife and your family.

  18. Zul Says:

    Azmeen, my all condolences to you and wife.

  19. Jewelle Says:

    Condolence to you and your wife. There is a reason for things to happens the way they did. God knows best and time will heal. God bless.

  20. Site Admin Azmeen Says:

    Aunty J, Thanks for the well wishes.

    azrin, I will; thanks!

    chegu carol, Really appreciate you taking the time to drop me a note of condolence. Thanks!

    Juanma, She’s recovering very well. In fact she already started work today. Thanks for your prayers!

    Zul, Much appreciated. Thank you very much.

    Jewelle, Thank you for the condolences. Yes, life moves on 🙂